Sunday 7 December 2014

Secret tricks that will make any Women fall in Love with you..Read This

Are the ladies giving you a hard time? Are you one of those men who have never been that suave ladies man but always wanted to be? Do you think the ladies are the problem? or is it you?

Author and professional pick up artist Joshua Pellicer has written a book that can help you overcome your fears of approaching women and will give you the skills to pick up any woman you want! He has appeared on many radio talk shows, television interviews and now hosts his own radio talk show called “Game On” which provides dating tips for men.

Does it work? Well… just listen to a few of his free tips with girls and strange facts in the video at the bottom of this article and you’ll totally get what I’m talking about… The guy is a friggin genius and I wish I had known about these tips a long time ago. I would have been able to take advantage of dozens of situations to easily nail it and get the girl.

The book is based on Joshua’s research in psychology, self help books and dating programs he has been through, and his experience.  Joshua himself proclaims to previously have been unsuccessful with women. He developed his own theory and system, based on a lot of research, which is now spreading like wild fire throughout the world and is being used by hundreds and thousands of men internationally. This book is literally a bestseller, and I must tell you, at first, I was very skeptical about this whole thing, but when the tips started flowing and I started realizing and understanding female behavior, it’s as if I became a lion hunting for prey. My self confidence has risen so much since I started using the techniques in his book. If you’re struggling with girls, you owe it to yourself. This book is a must-have for any 18+ single dude out-there, trust me on this one!

When you join this program, you’ll get a book and videos teaching you about how to alter your perception of women as well as what they are looking for in a man, to help you overcome your fear of approaching them. This is done in several ways:

First, Joshua breaks some myths about women’s expectations of men. He discusses common mistakes both men and women make in the dating world. Here are some examples:

It is a misconception that women are attracted to money. They are attracted to success, in whatever form that may be. Just because you do not have money does not mean the woman will not like you. Be confident.

It is not all about what magazines tell you about outer appearance. 97% of women say that bald heads can be sexy. 89% of women find that big, steroid muscles on men can be repulsive. It is not about your looks. It is about the vibe you give out. It is about attracting her.
He also teaches you how to exude confidence.

Pellicer teaches body language in both men and women. He teaches how to read a woman’s body language and send the messages you want with yours.

For example, here are some free tips I’m sharing with you, these tips will make a huge difference right away in your approach when you talk to a girl, and that’s just a small drop in the ocean of super cool and easy tips the dude has to share, so check these free tips out:

When approaching a woman, do not face your chest straight toward her too early. This can seem both intimidating and needy. Keep your chest slightly turned away at first.

When you are speaking with a woman, look at a her mouth. This is called a “sexual trigger” and makes the woman subconsciously think of sleeping with you. Do not do this the whole time, because she might think you are strange and creepy. But take glances at her lips occasionally.
In his book, Joshua also gives some unbelievable pick up lines as well as explaining how to hold a conversation that is sure to impress…

With these tips, rules, and guides (and many more within the book), Joshua states that he can turn most men into dating machines!

A fellow dating program author, Goran Nikilov, said “This  dating book for males is awesome but for those who do not know how to approach females it is a must, for the ones who have that fear of rejection in them – especially!”

The bottom line is that this guide will teach you how to attract a lot of women if you practice practice practice, but don’t expect it to work overnight.

Friday 14 November 2014

Confusion in South Africa over special permits for Zimbabweans

Zimbabweans who applied but did not get the first special dispensation permits rolled out by the South African government in 2010 could number well above 30,000, and a greater number could miss out again.

As the Department of Home Affairs collates data in a bid to help those who are yet to get the documents they applied for four years ago, an inside source said some could miss out due to "confusion" in the department.

"We are talking about 30,000 people here - some have had their permits re-allocated and others were turned away because they could not produce some of their documents in time. There are also others who did eventually submit the missing documents, but those were misplaced. It has therefore been very difficult to locate some of the applications, although those people have produced proof that they did apply."

The DHA recently mandated pro-Zimbabwean organisations to compile and submit information on those who missed out of the first application process, including those who were initially disqualified.

"We call upon those who have not yet submitted their information to come forward because those who miss out this time will definitely not get the permits," said Africa Relief Initiatives chairman, Bongani Halimana. - Cnr Fife and Abel Streets, Berea, on +27 73 821 4341, +27 61 042 0900 ; +2771 973 1978.

Justice Wadyajena orders Vice President Mujuru to resign with immediate effect

Gokwe-Nembudziya member of parliament Justice Wadyajena has laid into Vice President Joice Mujuru, saying she "must heed First Lady Grace Mugabe's call to resign" over alleged corruption and abuse of office charges.

This was after he had been asked about his position on the current factional fights in Zanu PF and the motivation of emblazoning his red BMW sports utility with the Women's League-designate boss' images.

"I support President Robert Mugabe and the First Lady, and only opposed to corrupt officials, including the VP, out to destroy the president's legacy through palace coups," Wadyajena said.

"In fact, l do not make any apologies for the VP to resign, especially in the wake of overwhelming evidence of corruption, abuse of office and plots to unseat… our first secretary, who has sacrificed a lot for Zimbabwe. The Zanu PF leader is a gem the country cannot afford to lose and, therefore, any attempts to eject him were treasonous".

The Harare businessman's salvo comes as political temperatures have risen ahead of the party's December elective congress and Zimbabwe has witnessed a trend in which many high-value vehicles have been "drenched" in Grace Mugabe's images.

Cost of Coverage Under Affordable Care Act to Increase in 2015

The Obama administration on Friday unveiled data showing that many Americans with health insurance bought under the Affordable Care Act could face substantial price increases next year in some cases as much as 20 percent unless they switch plans.

The data became available just hours before the health insurance marketplace was to open to buyers seeking insurance for 2015.

An analysis of the data by The New York Times suggests that although consumers will often be able to find new health plans with prices comparable to those they now pay, the situation varies greatly from state to state and even among counties in the same state.

“Consumers should shop around,” said Marilyn B. Tavenner, administrator of the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services, which runs the federal insurance exchange serving three dozen states. “With new options available this year, they’re likely to find a better deal.” She asserted that the data showed that “the Affordable Care Act is working.”

But Republicans quickly pounced on the data as evidence of the opposite.

“Last year, many who liked their plan were surprised to learn they couldn’t keep it,” said Senator Orrin G. Hatch of Utah, who is in line to become chairman of the Senate Finance Committee. “This year, many who like their plan will likely have to pay more to keep it.”

The new data means that many of the seven million people who have bought insurance through federal and state exchanges will have to change to different health plans if they want to avoid paying more an inconvenience for consumers just becoming accustomed to their coverage.

A new Gallup Poll suggests that seven in 10 Americans with insurance bought through the exchanges rate the coverage and the care as excellent or good, and most were planning to keep it.

In employer-sponsored health plans, employees tend to stay with the same insurer from year to year. But for consumers in the public insurance exchanges, that will often be a mistake, experts said.

Nashville illustrates the need for people with marketplace coverage to look closely at the alternatives available in 2015.

A 40-year-old in Nashville, with the cheapest midlevel, or silver plan, will pay $220 a month next year, compared to $181 a month this year, for the same plan.

The least expensive plan is offered by another insurer, Community Health Alliance, one of the so-called co-op plans created under the federal law. It offers coverage for a monthly premium of $194.

But the lower premium means that consumers will have to pay a much larger annual deductible, $4,000, rather than $2,000. A policyholder who becomes seriously ill or has a costly chronic condition could pay hundreds of dollars in out-of-pocket expenses.

In addition, different health plans often have different networks of doctors and hospitals and cover different drugs, meaning that consumers who change plans may have to pay more for the same medicines.

Another problem for consumers is that if the price for a low-cost benchmark plan in the area has dropped, the amount of federal subsidies provided by the law could be less, meaning that consumers may have to pay more unless they switch plans.

The data, released by the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services, indicates that price increases will be modest for many people willing to change plans. In a typical county, the price will rise 5 percent for the cheapest silver plan and 4 percent for the second cheapest.

Experts said the wide swings in prices were likely to continue. “Next year will see another reshuffling,” said Caroline F. Pearson, a vice president of Avalere Health, a research and consulting company. “Eventually, in a year or two, we will start to stabilize.”

The Times analysis found that premiums had increased much more sharply in places where fewer insurers were competing for customers. Prices for the lowest-cost silver plan increased by at least 5 percent in 89 percent of the counties with a single insurer. About a quarter of counties with one or two insurers saw an increase in rates of more than 10 percent. The analysis did not calculate how prices might change for people who keep their plans.

In 2015, as in 2014, large numbers of health plans have high deductibles the amount that consumers owe before the insurer starts to pay.

In Muscogee County, Ga., which includes Columbus, 74 health plans are available on the federal exchange. Fifty-two of the plans have deductibles of $2,500 or more, and 27 have deductibles of $5,000 or more.

The Internal Revenue Service defines a high-deductible plan as one with a deductible of $1,300 or more.

In Charleston, W.Va., the state capital, only 14 health plans are available, and all are offered by Highmark Blue Cross and Blue Shield. Half of the plans have deductibles of $2,500 or more, and one has a deductible of $5,000 or more.

In Jeff Davis County in West Texas, 17 plans are available. All but four have deductibles of $2,500 or more, and seven plans have deductibles of $5,000 or more. By contrast, Dallas residents have a choice of 64 plans, and in Houston, 71 are available.

In releasing the data, administration officials noted that more insurers had entered the market in many states. By the government’s count, 25 percent more insurers will be participating in the exchange next year, and consumers will have a choice of 40 different plans, on average, up from 31 this year.

New Hampshire shows how consumers may benefit from additional competition. In most of the state, the number of insurers is increasing to five in 2015, from just one this year. Prices for the lowest-cost silver plan have fallen by 14 percent.

But there remain large stretches of the country where consumers will still have a limited number of insurers to choose from.

Thursday 6 November 2014

Things to Remind Yourself Every Morning to Have a Happier Day

Although you may not always love everything about your life, it’s important to be grateful for a new day, each day. You may have lots of problems and you may not feel happy this morning but you need to be grateful for the fact that you are alive and that you have another day to make your life happier. Everything and anything is possible in this life, you just need to believe in that.

Unfortunately, many of us don’t always believe we can change our lives; we often believe otherwise. Many people believe they’re not capable of living their lives the way they want to live them, and they accept their reality as others have told them it has to be.

If you want to live your life to the fullest, without regrets, you need to keep in mind that you always have a choice and you are the only person who can decide to let things make you happy or unhappy. If you choose to be happy, trust me, no one will make you unhappy. Read on to discover a few important things you should remind yourself of every morning to have a happier day, each day.

Things to Remind Yourself of Every Morning to Have a Happier Day

This day is a blessing
Just think of how many people die each day and you will realize that waking up to see another day to enjoy life is a real blessing. When you wake up in the morning, remind yourself that this day is a blessing. You get another day to breathe, enjoy life, and reach your goals.

This day can be happy, but only if you make it so
Stop feeling powerless and stop waiting for things to be given to you. It’s your life so make the most of it. If you want something to achieve – work for it. No matter what the weather, today is a good day, even if you have a bad mood. You always have the power to control your mood and you always have the power to have a productive and happy day, you just need to choose to have one.


 No one can hurt you today
Remember no one can hurt you today, unless you let them do it. If someone hurts you, don’t take it personally. Don’t allow insults to get to your heart and make sure you avoid toxic people. When you don’t take anything personally, you feel happier and nothing keeps your from reaching your goals. Learn to live your life without worrying about the judgments of others and you will become a much happier person.
4. Stay calm in tough situations

Staying calm and kind in difficult situations is a huge challenge. Tough situations can happen each day. The problem is, how are you going to respond to them? You may get upset and angry and this will ruin your entire day. Or, you may stay calm and kind, solve your problem faster and enjoy a happy day. The choice is yours. But remember, anger will never help solve problems. It can only make your life miserable.

You can control many things in your life
Sure, you can’t control everything in your life, but there are many things that you can control each day. Stop thinking that your life is out of your control. Take some time to make the list of the things you can control in life and look through this list every morning. You will see that you are a master of your life and you have the power to change anything about your life.

Success is a lifestyle, not a result
Everyone wants to be successful, but we often forget that success isn’t a specific achievement. Success is a lifestyle. It’s the ability to live life on your own terms no matter what. Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.” If you decide to be successful, you will be successful. Stay positive, work toward success and be proud of it each day.

You don’t need anyone’s approval
Remind yourself that you don’t need anyone’s approval to be successful and happy today. The need for approval can stop you from reaching your goals and rising higher. Don’t let anyone control your life. It may feel uncomfortable to say “no,” but if some people and obligations don’t add any value to your life, don’t be afraid to say “no” to them. Make the most of each day. Don’t wait around for someone else to give you permission to be happy and do what you want to do.

Complaining won’t help you become happier
If you are a constant complainer, you need to break this bad habit starting today. Complaining won’t help you become successful and happy. If you don’t like your current situation, don’t sit around complaining about it, start changing it instead. Stay positive in every situation and you will solve your problems faster without damaging your health. It has been proven that complaining is bad for the brain health. Moreover, it can affect your quality of life and ruin your relationships.


Good things in life end faster when you don’t appreciate them
We often tend to think that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, and others live much happier lives than we live. The reality is, the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence and you live a happy life – you just don’t appreciate it or simply don’t notice it. Learn to appreciate all the things you have in your life to live a more fulfilling life. Don’t wait for them to end before you begin appreciating them. Being grateful has its rewards. I recommend you to start your day with writing down at least 5 things, people, acts or events you are grateful for to have a happier day.

Healthy eating is the key to a longer life
Don’t worry, I’m not going to tell you to stick to a strict diet. But if you want to live a longer life, make sure you eat healthy foods daily. Avoid processed foods and try to boost your fruit and vegetable intake. Never skip your breakfast, and aim to eat smaller meals throughout the day. A healthy breakfast will jumpstart your brain and help improve your productivity and focus throughout the morning. Eating small, healthy meals throughout the day will keep your tummy happy and healthy, and boost your energy levels and mood. I don’t know about you, but when I’m hungry I can’t be productive and happy, which is why I always have a nutritious breakfast and make smart snack choices throughout the day. It helps me to work better, feel better, and hopefully, live longer! The next time you wake up in the morning and don’t feel like eating your breakfast, remind yourself that healthy eating is the key to a longer, happier life.

There are many important things we need to remind ourselves of every morning. These are just a few things I remind myself in the morning and when I have a hard day. They help me remember that life is a wonderful thing no matter what. What are some of your favorite things to remind yourself of every morning to have a happier day?

8 Amazing Compliments You Should Give Yourself Each Day



Have you ever thought of giving yourself compliments every day? Many people believe there is no sense in it. If you’re one of them, I’m going to persuade you that giving yourself compliments is good for you. When you wake up, there is no need for negativity because a dark mind will only create a bad day. Start your day with these 8 compliments to keep your spirits up, and you will notice that your life isn’t as hard as it seems.

Amazing Compliments to Give Yourself Each Day

 I am beautiful
This is the first compliment to give yourself in the morning every day. Why? Because many women underestimate themselves and I thought it would be a great compliment to give ourselves in the morning. What do you like about yourself? It can be internal, such as the sense of humor, or external, such as your smile or the color of your eyes. When you are down on yourself, just choose at least two things that you are proud of. Even if no one notices your beauty, remember, it exists and one day, people around you will notice it!

 I am strong
You might have tears in your eyes or scars on your wrists, but you are strong. You’ve gotten through lots of miserable minutes, and you’ve managed to cope with different tough situations. Another compliment to give yourself each morning is that you are a strong and capable person who can cope with the worst things. I know from personal experience how it’s difficult to stay strong when things go wrong and no one believes in you or no one helps you. But I always remind myself that I’m a strong woman and nothing can bring me down.

 My life means something
This compliment is highly important, especially for those who can’t find their meaning in life. It’s not possible to know what actually you’re born to do. You might be meant to be a famous actress or meant to raise a big family. No matter what you’re born to do, you should trust that there’s an important reason behind your existence. You are not useless. You are a beautiful and clever person who will certainly find their place in life.

I am alive
Yes, this may not sound like a good compliment, but indeed it is. While life is tough, dull, and draining, you are still alive and you are living life on a wonderful planet, surrounded by wonderful people. When you are alive, you have lots of amazing opportunities open to you. Just enjoy your life!

 I am intelligent
You might not be book smart and perhaps you didn’t get high grades in school and college, but you are brilliant in your own way. You might be more gifted when it comes to knowing celebrity gossip, or remembering sports statistics. All of us have an absolutely different set of knowledge, and all of us are intelligent. If you don’t consider yourself an intelligent person, you should learn to appreciate yourself. Just because your friend has a well-paid job doesn’t mean they are smarter or happier than you. Money doesn’t make anyone happy!

I am loved
Even if you don’t have a partner, you are still loved. Love comes in many forms. Some people love you romantically while others love you like a daughter or sister. When it comes to affection, never be greedy. Appreciate sincerely any love you get in your life, and never take it for granted. Love is special, no matter whether this love is given to you by one person or one hundred. Remember it! If you are absolutely lonely, consider adopting or buying a pet, and you will instantly feel that you are loved. Pet’s love is probably the most sincere!

I am in charge of my own life
This is another wonderful compliment to give yourself every single day. There’s always going to be someone in your life who has control over you, like your mom, dad, teacher, elder sibling, or boss. But you are in charge of your life, you can do almost everything you want to do, and you can make your own decisions. Don’t let anyone and anything control your life!

I am happy
While there are times when you have to go through difficult situations, you should never forget how happy you are. Happiness is within you, you don’t have to pursue it. Just decide to be happy, and you will be. I know easier said than done, but give it a whirl and you won’t regret you did. Every morning smile and remind yourself of how happy and lucky you are. All your problems and troubles will disappear in a jiff!

It’s a bad habit to start the morning off with negative thoughts. Never do this, because your pessimism will ruin your whole day. Think of your best quality and don’t be afraid to compliment yourself. Giving yourself a small compliment each day helps you love yourself and always stay positive! Which compliments do you give yourself? Please share your thoughts and thanks for reading!

10 Easy Ways to Create a Perfect Fitness Routine



You may find it difficult to create a perfect fitness routine, especially if you’ve never exercised before. However, it’s not that hard if you’re guided by some tips. An ideal fitness routine implies a wise and detailed plan of your workouts with different types of activities. Read on to learn 10 easy ways to develop your ideal fitness program.

Easy Ways to Create a Perfect Fitness Routine

Set goals
When planning your fitness routine, the most important thing to do is to set goals and stay motivated. People exercise for various reasons. Many people want to lose weight, while others want to tone up their body. If you haven’t exercised for a long time, remember to start with small steps and easy goals. Your goals should be achievable and realistic so that you stay inspired and motivated with your accomplishments. To begin with you should assess your fitness level and break your fitness routine into appropriate short-term, intermediate and long-term goals.

 Create a plan
It’s always easier to stick to a program when it’s put down. When you come up with all the activities you want to include in your fitness routine, it’s time to arrange them. Decide what you are going to do each day during the week and don’t forget to devote one day to rest. Don’t start exercising with frantic pace; it’s crucial to develop your endurance and strength gradually. As you progress, don’t forget to refresh and alter your fitness program.

Make your fitness routine fun
Making your fitness routine fun is the sure way to gain great results. Being involved in workouts with your kids, friends or co-workers may become something you will look forward to. Encourage your neighbors to join a local soccer team. Outdoor trainings in the fresh air and sunshine will promote your cheerful mood.

 Choose the appropriate sports gear
Right fitness clothing is essential when you want to start a new fitness routine. Remember that fitness gear is not about looking good; your clothing should correspond to your workouts, be comfortable and fit well. Pay attention to your bra; your bust contains no muscle tissue thus it needs an additional support during your trainings. Sports shoes are another thing you should choose wisely. A good pair of running shoes should have solid soles, fit perfectly and conform to your workouts. Ask an assistant at a fitness shop to help you with your sports gear.

Cardio is the best start
While developing a fitness program you should pay special attention to your heart health. Cardio is the best way to improve your cardiovascular system, normalize blood pressure and strengthen your immunity. 30 to 40 minutes of cardio four times a week will be enough to be in good shape. Opt for any continuous and rhythmic activity such as swimming, dancing, brisk walking or running.

Consider calisthenics
Vary your fitness program and keep your muscles toned by adding two or three sessions of calisthenics per week. Calisthenics require no equipment and it’s available everywhere at any time. Calisthenics will help you achieve a natural looking body and build up all muscle groups evenly. Opt for crunches, push-ups, lunges or just a jumping rope.

Add weights
Most women believe that weight training will result in ugly, bulging muscles; therefore they avoid this type of exercise. But weight trainings are the best way to work all main muscle groups including legs, buttocks, arms and core. Start with two or three 20 minute weight trainings a week but make sure you use light weights. Weight trainings are rather traumatic when done improperly. Thus you’ll need a fitness specialist to work with in order to avoid sprains, fractures and strains.

Non-weight-bearing trainings
Everything that is done sitting is considered non-weight-bearing exercises. This type of physical activities is especially beneficial to those who strive for upper-body trainings since non-weight-bearing exercises don’t imply the work of legs during the trainings. Seated strength exercises, swimming, biking and water resistance trainings are perfect options to add to your fitness program.

Give weight-bearing exercise a try
Adding weight-bearing exercises to your fitness routine is the best way to build strong bones and sculptured body. Using resistance bands, lifting dumbbells or doing any type of activity that places force on your bones will go. Working with your own weight is also a good way to build muscles and strengthen your bones. That’s why don’t overlook stair climbing and lifting your grocery bags.

 Yoga time
Not only will yoga help you gain flexibility and toned muscles, it will also improve your sleep and relieve stress. The most important rule to follow is to do yoga regularly. 20 minute yoga sessions will help to achieve an excellent result if done daily. Surprisingly, but yoga also helps to burn calories, especially when it follows the weight trainings.

A detailed and efficient fitness plan is a pledge of your success. Follow these useful tips and develop a fitness program that wholly suits your goals. Make your fitness routine fun and always stay motivated and enthusiastic about your exercises!